.以前.自己.现在.

前些年的自己

你不必讨好所有人，也不用因为别人不喜欢你而生气或难过。
因为，你不需要每个人都了解你，只要你了解自己已足够。
你没办法让所有人都喜欢你，但你一定要先喜欢你自己。

懂你的人，你不需要解释，不懂你的人，你更不用去解释。

I no longer have patience for certain things, not because I've become arrogant, but simply because I reached a point in my life where I do not want to waste more time with what displease me or hurts me. I have no patience for cynicism, excessive criticism and demands of any nature. I lost the will to please those who do not like me, to love those who do not love me and to smile to those who do not want to smile at me.

I no longer spend a single minute on those who lie or want to manipulate. I decided not to coexist anymore with pretense, hypocrisy, dishonesty and cheap praise. I do not tolerate selective eruditionnor academic arrogance. I do not adjust either to popular gossiping. I hate conflict and comparisons. I believe in a world of opposites and that's why I avoid people with rigid and inflexible personalities. In friendship I dislike the lack of loyalty and betrayal. I do not get along those who do not know how to give a compliment or a word of encouragement.

Exaggerations bore me and I have difficulty accepting those who do not like animals. And on top of everything I have no patience for anyone who does not deserve my patience.

----- Meryl Streep

I don't care what you think about me. I don't think about you at all.

----- Coco Chanel